I typically don’t write on this topic but I’ve had so many conversations with people this week on how to get your ex girlfriend back that I just had to share it with you. Has your girlfriend recently broke up with you? If so, then good! You should start by immediately joining a dating site to try and find someone to bang regardless of whether or not you want to get back together with her. Just do it. Anyway, breaking up can be really hard for the both of you but it doesn’t mean that it is the end of a relationship. If she broke up with you, there has to be a reason behind it. Hopefully, the reason wasn’t that you sucked in bed!
If you really want her back in your life again, you must understand and determine why she broke up with you in the first place. Getting your ex girlfriend back isn’t impossible. It requires a few steps and compromises but in the end, you can always get her back if you are serious. Following are some of the best things to do after a break up to get her back again. Remember what I said though about hooking up online. I’d suggest trying to find a girl to fuck in the interim!
Give Her Some Space
When you break up with your ex girlfriend, try not to act like you desperately need her back in your life. Instead, get into a complete no contact zone for a couple of days. During the no contact period, make sure you do not get in touch with her no matter what happens. If she contacts you, do your best to ignore it.
This no contact period is for two reasons. One, she will start forgetting about the negative picture you set which made her split up with you in the first place and secondly, she will get enough time to think about the two of you once again. Hopefully, she’ll be thinking about how awesome the sex was!
The no contact period should be at least 7-10 days because that is the bare minimum time when she finally gets rid of all the negative thoughts but still has the good memories intact.
During this time, if she tries to contact you, do not answer her messages or texts. You will have to disappear completely and make her wonder what happened to you.
Return As The New You
During the no contact period, focus on the negative parts of your personality and start improving them. For example, if there is a particular habit your girlfriend didn’t like, change that. You have to improve on the negative points to finally have something to offer her and get her back.
During this period try to grieve as much as you can and then go out and have fun. If you return to your girlfriend in the same miserable condition you left, things aren’t going to turn out good. It’s just a cyclic cycle that you’ll be creating.
Return as a better person and show her that you are happy but do remind her of the good times you had together. If you nail this perfectly, she will come back to you in no time. I also suggest that you dress like a boss and make sure she notices that you’re threads are top notch. If she doesn’t, then that’s okay too. That’s why I suggested that you use the dating sites that exist out there and try your best to get laid as often as possible in your downtime. Remember, you’re not the only single person trying to get over someone. There’s plenty of girls out there on horny dating sites that are looking to fuck! Go find them and do it!
