I’m a huge fan of putting in the work upfront. That means I put in work to slide in the DM on the regular. It’s just part of my strategy and I think you’ll agree with me when I say it’s become a necessity of dating today. Much like standard dating, making a good first impression is crucial when you are dating on the internet. If you are approaching a pretty girl on an online dating site, she probably has tons of guys messaging her as well. It’s important that you stand out from the rest, but it’s also important that you approach her in a way that is genuine and not an act because she will eventually see through it. Here are some samples of direct message openers to make a good first impression, no matter what kind of guy you are.

If you are approaching a pretty girl on an online dating site, she probably has tons of guys messaging her as well. It’s important that you stand out from the rest, but it’s also important that you approach her in a way that is genuine and not an act. If not, she will eventually see through it all. That means putting forth the effort to DM girls in a genuine manner. Good thing for you, I’ve got just the tips for you! Here are some samples of direct message openers to make a good first impression, no matter what kind of guy you are.

Slide In The DM With These Messaging Tips

Here are some samples of direct message openers to make a good first impression, no matter what kind of guy you are.

Show You’re A Sensitive Guy

Girls like sensitive guys, so try these lines out for size…

You are the most interesting and stunning girl I’ve seen online in a while. I hope you don’t mind that I tell you that.
Sometimes I feel so deeply for all the sadness in the world that I just want to go on a hugging tour. Can I start with you?

Go From Zero To Flirt (One Message)

Flirt your way into her panties. I’ve been doing this for years and it works like a charm! Every day I’m flirting, simple as that.

I won’t say anything cheesy like telling you how beautiful you are. Never mind, I just did.
You can seduce me if you like, but I can tell you now it’s not necessary. I’m hooked.

Show Confidence

So, where are we going to go on our first date? I know this great little restaurant downtown and we can go dancing after.
I’m sure you were about to message me, so I decided to beat you to it. What’s up?

But Be Humble

I don’t know what I did to deserve to come across you, but I’m not going to question it. Let’s talk.
You’re way too hot for me, but I decided to write you anyway. What’s up?

Show That You’re Interested In Politics

Some people lean to either the right or the left, but I think both parties have a lot to apologize for. What do you think?
Our government has become a circus. I’m tired of everyone fighting. Let’s enjoy each other’s company and forget all about it for a while.

Deep Thoughts

Have you ever wondered what would happen if we could unlock even 1% more of our brain capacity?
Are we alone in this universe or is there life in other galaxies? Let’s get together and talk about it.

Current Events Knowledge

Did you see the latest developments in Canada? I don’t think they’re too keen on handing out visas to all these Americans who suddenly want move there.
Why are so many people freaking out about who goes to the bathroom where? Unisex bathrooms have been a thing for years.

Show You’re A Masculine Man

I’ll be honest with you, I watch sports, lift weights, and drink beer. I thought you should know before we go out.
I don’t usually talk about my feelings, but I’m willing to make an exception for you.

Show You Have Coin

Would you like to meet me at the Radiohead concert tonight? I can have a car pick you up.
I was going to ask if you wanted to go out on my new boat, but I think we better get to know each other first.

Now, those are all examples of things you can DM girls if you want to eventually hook up with them or connect virtually at a minimum. Any questions, fire away!