Instagram Dating Rules You Must Follow


Believe it or not, there are rules to dating especially when you’re doing it on Instagram. This whole Instagram Live has sparked a new rage of connecting to hook up and people are doing it all wrong. For starters, what I can tell you is so many people are getting banned left and right using this social platform as a dating service. They don’t realize just how awful it really is in comparison to services like the one I prefer.

That said, sometimes you just can’t change the stripes on a zebra. Which is one of the main reasons why I’m giving you some pointers here if you’re truly down to meet, mingle, and maybe bang on Instagram.

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Rules For Casually Dating Girls On Instagram

These are non-negotiable rules if you want to succeed and be successful with Internet dating. It’s not common for people to excel and succeed on IG when it comes to sex but if you take my advice and follow these rules, you’ll be far better off if you do.

Stay Within 100 Miles

The first thing you want to do is stop wasting your time reaching out to people not within 100 miles of you. In fact, I’d like to tighten that radius up a bit and say 50 miles MAX. Why? Because you want to connect with people willing to meet up with you. No one is driving three hours just to bang.

Focus On Interests

If you’re smart, you’ll focus on girls that have similar interests to yours. That way you have something in common that connects you with one another. I like to focus on girls that like outdoor activities like hiking and biking. I’m a granola at heart so it makes it easier to connect if we share the same interests.

Never Compliment On Looks Publically

If you want to lose them faster than ever before, then compliment them in public on their looks. This will be the first and last chance you get if you do that. Girls want guys like us to put forth more of an effort. Commenting on how someone looks or their short dress or heels isn’t going to help you get laid.

Don’t Creep On Every Post

Creeps get banned, simple as that. So if you think you’re being kind of creepy, then chances are that you most definitely are doing just that and then some. Don’t cross the line because creepsters get banned and that’s how that goes!

Never Send Dick Pics

This is an uber important rule. You must NEVER and I repeat NEVER send a dick pic via Instagram. If you do, I can promise you that you’ll end up getting banned. They have moderators that manage photos and look out for these types of things. So do yourself a favor and stay far away from those shots.

Start A DM

You need to casually send a direct message to the girl you want to hook up with. Let them know how you come in contact with them, what you like about them and why you think the two of you should meet up. If you do this right and she’s into it, then you’ll end up having a nice conversation and eventually meet up.

Be Prepared For Failure

It doesn’t always go according to plan. What I mean by that is you’ve got to be prepared for failure. If you’re not, then you’re going to find yourself losing confidence very quickly. When girls diss you or pass up on things, you move on.

Show Confidence And Wealth

Being confident and appearing wealthy is a turn on to women. No one wants to date a poor loser with low self-esteem and zero confidence. Don’t even think about doing that because it’s not going to help.

Those are my main rules for dating on Instagram. If you were smart, you’d spend less time using this social network and more time on a site that’s dedicated to hooking people up just for sex. I suggest trying this before anything else.

Why I Avoid Meeting Facebook Girls (With No Exceptions)


I’ve been using Fbook for literally as long as I can remember. Facebook is something that everyone has and it seems like a no-brainer. You should be able to search your area, send a friend request to every hot girl you see, nd hook up with one or more of them. It is possible, but it’s also easier said than done. I’ve been avoiding meeting Facebook girls for years and I’m going to tell you exactly why I avoid them like the plague.

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Facebook Girls And Why I Shy Away From Connecting With Them

If girls on Facebook are looking for a date, they will go to a dating site or a bar. They aren’t going to be interested in some random guy who sends them a friend request on social media. That is unless, of course, you are gorgeous. If you are an “Adonis” who is popular with the ladies, you will have no problem hooking up with girls on Facebook.

The question is, if you are an attractive guy who is desired by women, why would you pick up women on social media? That’s right, you wouldn’t. Instead, you’d spend time socializing locally with smoking hot women in person trying to take them back to your house.

Sure, your social media can be just like a dating site, but it’s crucial that you have an amazing profile picture that ladies can’t deny. You can lose some weight, consistently exercise, buy some new clothes that are fashionable, and get your pictures professionally shot. The thing is…you can do all those things to better yourself and get more dates just about anywhere you go. You would no longer have to confine your exploits to Facebook. Not to mention, many of the Fbook girls are just tire kickers not actually looking to get laid by some random dude.

You could join pretty much any dating or hookup site and find many women in no time. You could even go out to the bar and have better luck. The point is; anything that you would need to do to hook up successfully on social media, you can do somewhere else and get better results.

Facebook is too much like high school. You have to spend too much time trying to maintain your popularity. Even if you become popular, there are not that many opportunities to turn that popularity into dates. Most of the women are not expecting to hook up with anyone. They come to check their news feed and click on a few of their friend’s pictures and leave. They brag about stupid shit and post pics of their dogs and that’s it. There are far too many other things distracting them and the last thing on their mind is going to be some random guy who contacted them via messenger.

I should also mention that you are also competing with every other creep who stalks Facebook girls. There are creepers looking to friend request every hot girl they can find and yes, they’re your competition. You categorize yourself in with those guys and she will think that you are just another one of the douchebags. At least on an adult dating site, everyone’s looking for a date. Therefore, the women won’t assume that you are a creep.

Slide In The DM: Things To Send Direct To Girls You Want


I’m a huge fan of putting in the work upfront. That means I put in work to slide in the DM on the regular. It’s just part of my strategy and I think you’ll agree with me when I say it’s become a necessity of dating today. Much like standard dating, making a good first impression is crucial when you are dating on the internet. If you are approaching a pretty girl on an online dating site, she probably has tons of guys messaging her as well. It’s important that you stand out from the rest, but it’s also important that you approach her in a way that is genuine and not an act because she will eventually see through it. Here are some samples of direct message openers to make a good first impression, no matter what kind of guy you are.

If you are approaching a pretty girl on an online dating site, she probably has tons of guys messaging her as well. It’s important that you stand out from the rest, but it’s also important that you approach her in a way that is genuine and not an act. If not, she will eventually see through it all. That means putting forth the effort to DM girls in a genuine manner. Good thing for you, I’ve got just the tips for you! Here are some samples of direct message openers to make a good first impression, no matter what kind of guy you are.

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Slide In The DM With These Messaging Tips

Here are some samples of direct message openers to make a good first impression, no matter what kind of guy you are.

Show You’re A Sensitive Guy

Girls like sensitive guys, so try these lines out for size…

You are the most interesting and stunning girl I’ve seen online in a while. I hope you don’t mind that I tell you that.
Sometimes I feel so deeply for all the sadness in the world that I just want to go on a hugging tour. Can I start with you?

Go From Zero To Flirt (One Message)

Flirt your way into her panties. I’ve been doing this for years and it works like a charm! Every day I’m flirting, simple as that.

I won’t say anything cheesy like telling you how beautiful you are. Never mind, I just did.
You can seduce me if you like, but I can tell you now it’s not necessary. I’m hooked.

Show Confidence

So, where are we going to go on our first date? I know this great little restaurant downtown and we can go dancing after.
I’m sure you were about to message me, so I decided to beat you to it. What’s up?

But Be Humble

I don’t know what I did to deserve to come across you, but I’m not going to question it. Let’s talk.
You’re way too hot for me, but I decided to write you anyway. What’s up?

Show That You’re Interested In Politics

Some people lean to either the right or the left, but I think both parties have a lot to apologize for. What do you think?
Our government has become a circus. I’m tired of everyone fighting. Let’s enjoy each other’s company and forget all about it for a while.

Deep Thoughts

Have you ever wondered what would happen if we could unlock even 1% more of our brain capacity?
Are we alone in this universe or is there life in other galaxies? Let’s get together and talk about it.

Current Events Knowledge

Did you see the latest developments in Canada? I don’t think they’re too keen on handing out visas to all these Americans who suddenly want move there.
Why are so many people freaking out about who goes to the bathroom where? Unisex bathrooms have been a thing for years.

Show You’re A Masculine Man

I’ll be honest with you, I watch sports, lift weights, and drink beer. I thought you should know before we go out.
I don’t usually talk about my feelings, but I’m willing to make an exception for you.

Show You Have Coin

Would you like to meet me at the Radiohead concert tonight? I can have a car pick you up.
I was going to ask if you wanted to go out on my new boat, but I think we better get to know each other first.

Now, those are all examples of things you can DM girls if you want to eventually hook up with them or connect virtually at a minimum. Any questions, fire away!