FWB Rules You Must Understand

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I’ve already told you what FWB means so you should have a pretty good idea of what that encompasses. However, some people don’t follow the FWB rules. They can’t help themselves from being rebels and breaking the rules. However the more you break the rules, the less amount of time you will end up having sex with your friends with benefits. Just follow these rules (always).

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6 FWB Rules That You Must Always Follow

These six rules are the important FWB rules that you’ll ever come across. Pay very close attention to each one of them if you like getting laid.

Have Sex Every Single Time
Let’s assume you have a FWB relationship that you’ve established with someone. It’s important that you have sex with that person each time that you see them. You can’t go out for ice cream or invite them over to watch a movie and not have sex with them. In fact, if you do just that it’s going to cost you in the long run. Sex every time is super important because it sets boundaries and makes a statement that you’re really all about the sex and nothing else. That’s important.

No Sleep Overs
The next important rule never to break is the sleepover rule. Your FWB should never sleep over your house and you should never sleep over their house either. It’s always best to have a half night stand with your FWB at the very most. In fact, just fucking and leaving is completely acceptable and in fact, warranted. I highly suggest that you never sleep over her house.

Once Per Week Only
You don’t need to have sex with your “friend” more than once per week. BFs and GFs have sex a few times per week. Once you start banging on a more constant basis it becomes something more intimate and meaningful. I’d highly suggest that you only have sex with your FWB a maximum of one time per week. That’s all that you should do it. Anything more than that is going to bit you in your ass.

Avoid Cute Date Stuff
Don’t go out on dates with this person. You must remember that you’re not dating each other, you’re having mindless sex and that’s all that both of you should be looking for. If either one of you are looking to go on a romantic dinner date then you’re no longer going to be considered just friends with benefits. It’s nothing personal, I’m just saying that you want to keep things as emotionless as possible.

Don’t Hang During Holidays
Spend time during holidays with your own families. Do not hang out with one another. It’s perhaps that icing on the cake when it comes to getting closer with someone. Your family will start to wonder who this person is and it’s going to turn into a real relationship at some point.

Don’t Smother Her
Lastly, of the FWB rules, do not ever smother your FWB. Smothering is a surefire way to get someone to want to break up with you. I’ve seen it happen on many occasions. You fuck a girl that’s just a friend and you continue to ask her to bang and she gets pissed off because you don’t give her enough space. Next thing you know, she’s no longer fucking you and it’s over!

Sex On Third Date Is A Must Or Bust!

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Look, there are some instances where you just can’t seal the deal. First and second dates didn’t get you there. You’re hoping to have sex on the third date. I’m going to do my best to help you achieve that and if not, I’ll give you some alternative options.

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Have Sex On The Third Date With These Tactics

For starters, sex on the first, second or third date is not impossible. In fact, It happens to me all the time. It really depends on the dating site that I’m using though. Most of the time, when I’m using a site like Uberhorny.com, I end of getting laid on the first night and sometimes without even paying for dinner. However, on the rare occasion that I can’t seal the deal on either the first date or second date, I do my best to get luck on the third date. Here are a few things that I do to seal the deal.

I’m more vocal
When I’m on a third date and I still haven’t fucked the girl that I’m out with then I’m always more vocal about how sexually attracted I am to her. I do this because I want her to know how much I truly want her. It’s important that she understand that from the beginning of the date and being vocal about it works pretty well.

I Don’t Waste Time
I never waste time on third dates. For example, I always make them at night and with an intimate setting. There’s no sense in wasting more time since you’ve already wasted a couple of night with her that didn’t get your dick inside her.

I Ask Her To Come Back To My Place
If I’m trying to get laid on date three, then I’ll always ask someone to come back to my place. Doing so gets me one step closer to getting them into the bedroom. If she’s not willing to go back to my place then I try and speed the date up as quickly as possible.

I Always Drink
If it’s your third date, then I want both my date and I to get drunk. Why? Well, there’s more of a chance that we will have sex if we’re both wasted.

I Text Before
If I’m going out on a third date and I want to have sex with someone, I’ll send them a sexy or flirty text message a few hours before the date. I want them to know how “into them” I really am and maybe she’ll wear something naughty for me if I do that. I don’t know why I take this approach nor do I know why it works, but it does.

If by chance you cannot seal the deal on the third date and you’re only dating because you want to get laid then you need to cut ties and never call her again. She’s looking for something more serious and all you’re looking for is horny girls that want dick. Get back on that dating site and find another dirty girl to fuck tonight instead!

How To Random Video Chat The Right Way

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Having a random video chat with a girl that’s a member of a dating site can be a great experience. It’s an even better experience if she’s horny and wants to fuck. I’ve probably chatted with over 45 girls on video since I became a member of Uberhorny and getting most of the girls to do so was a breeze. If you don’t believe me, then read my bio to find out how much of a badass I really am. I’m going to tell you exactly what you need to do if you want to spend time video chatting, face to face with some random horny girls online.

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Random Video Chat Your Way To An Orgasm

Some of these tips may seem a bit mundane and logical. However, don’t be a smartass. These tips work and they get me laid quite a bit. Take a look at the list of tips and let me know what you think.

Find Girls First
You need to know how to find girls before you can even have a random video chat. Either that or you’ll be chatting with yourself and it will be the biggest let down of your life. I’m not joking when I say that! It truly will be the biggest letdown. Your self-esteem will go to shit and your day will suck unless you know how to find girls to chat with. That said, you better join one or two sex networks if you plan on meeting some loose girls. I’ve primarily used Uberhorny to accomplish this and you can do the same.

Approach Them With Care
If you’re using Uberhorny, then you’ve got to know what to expect when you approach some random person to have a video chat with you. For starters, if you’re spending time online and you’re just forcefully approaching girls asking them to get naked without talking to them like a human being then you’re going to find yourself in a tough spot.

Instead, approach them calmly and do so always coming forward with a compliment or two. This works most of the time. It gets the girls chatting about themselves and it’s a great icebreaker.

Don’t Have Your Dick Out
Don’t get caught with your dick in your hand when chatting with girls on Uberhorny. At the very least, don’t do it right away. Yes, this is the objective, to have a random video chat with some hot girl you eventually end up fucking in person. However, slow your roll big man. There is a time and a place for things like random video chat dates. The time is later and the place is right where you are, so just don’t be, “overly prepared” so to speak. Being prepared for a real date is different, and you should be prepared for that. But a chat is not the same.

Ask Her If She’s Ever
When you’re chatting with the girl tell her that she’s gorgeous and that you’re curious if she’s ever done anything like this before. If she replies with a, “NO” then you claim to not have done it either and that you want to experiment with her and have some fun. If she says yes, you tell her that you’re new to this and you want her to show you some fun. Either way, she’ll feel comfortable having the random chat with you.

Once you two are chatting and you see things start to escalate to a sexier level then you can go in for the kill and ask if she wants to have sex on cam with you!

Hey, you only live once so you better go for it!

How To Send The Right Message To Girls Online

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After reading the title, you probably think I’m referring to an actual text message or on-site message but I’m not. I’m referring to the portrayal of what you’re trying to say to girls you are connecting with online. It’s not all that uncommon for guys like you and I to get all amped up, connect with a hot girl online and you try to let her know what you’re looking for but you, unfortunately, send the wrong message. It happens and I’m here to help you prevent that from happening.

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Tips To Send The Right Message To Women Online

Here are a few tips to keep your message clear and not lead to wasted efforts using online dating sites.

Be Straight Forward
Whatever message you are trying to get across to people, I’d suggest that you be super straight forward. Do not beat around the bush. You need to be straight forward with women online because it’s going to save everyone time and money. The one thing that you need to remember though is to not be to forceful. If you tell a girl that you meet online that you’re horny and want to bang her in the ass, well, you may not get too far with that. What you can do is tell her that you’re looking for someone to hook up with.

Don’t Be Cocky
In the eyes of most women, the guy that’s too cocky is looked as a total douche bag. Some people are cocky as fuck and I can tell you that it’s done absolutely nothing for me. I can’t stress how important it is to not be too cocky. Instead, I suggest that you take a smart-cocky approach. Be cocky in your own mind but don’t let the world know about it.

Be Real
Real is right. Fake is wrong. Simple as that. Don’t make it seem like you own a ton of fancy stuff if you don’t. Be real and genuine. Show girls that you’re a real guy that just wants to show them a good time and it’ll pay off in dividends. I should also mention that being real also goes for your profile. Don’t put stupid fake shit on there. If you do, you’re just another asshole. LOL

Keep It Fun
Life is too short to be serious. Girls have enough stress in their lives and they certainly are not trying to take on any more seriousness. Instead they want happy, sexy, funny. I strongly suggest that you try and get the message across to women you meet online that you’re all about having fun. It makes a huge difference.

It’s Monday and I promise you that if you focus on these few things that I’ve shared with you above, you’re going to be successful when it comes to getting lucky with women online. There’s plenty of horny girls all over the country and even in your backyard that are looking for some D. Line it up and give it to them!

What Do Women Want…Things Women Want But Don’t Say!

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I’ve recently come to the conclusion that I when initially writing this post, I didn’t answer the question well enough that many people ask me. You know, they standard “What do women want?” question that is thrown around all the time. That said, I’ve decided to update this blog post and provide even more value to you than I already have below. If you’re struggling to determine what women want in bed or even in general from a dating perspective, then I strongly suggest you read this updated blog post.

If you’re using an online dating site, then there’s a chance that you’ve come across women that may seem to be a bit reserved. It’s not uncommon for women to want something but just keep their thoughts to themselves. I’m going to share a few things I’ve learned from dating many women over the years. No one should take offense to this post. I’m not saying that all women want these things. I’m just saying that some I know for a fact do, but they just prefer not to say it.

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Top Ten List: What Do Women Want (But Often Don’t Tell You)

Here are a few things that women most often want but don’t want to say it.

They Want To Act Slutty
This is a shocker I know, but women love to act slutty. They want to have “spur of the moment” non-planned sex with people and they want to act wild. Why? Well, they love to feel young and free and this behavior allows them to do so. However, you’re not going to hear most women say that they want to act like a slut for a night, especially to a guy they meet on a dating site. Maybe some of them will but not most. Even if it’s a hookup site.

You To Sext Them
Most women aren’t going to say to you that they want you to sext them. The reason most won’t say it is because they fear they are going to be rejected or laughed at if the guy denies them that.

To Be Asked Out
They want to be asked out by guys but will never say that they want that. It’s a cat and mouse game that most women refuse to stop playing. If they show their cards and straight up tell you what they want, then it takes the fun out of it.

To Be Told They Are Hot
Unless a woman is really pissed off or is totally straight forward, she’s not going to come out and tell you to say that she’s hot. You may find some hint in her dating profile but that’s about it. Don’t be afraid to tell a girl that she’s hot.

Be Told That You Like Being With Them
Women love hearing guys tell them that they like spending time with them. So long as you’re saying it in a nice way and not an overpowering manner. Coming on strong can reduce your chances of getting laid in a big way. However, they love being told that you like being with them or that they are fun to hang out with. Just don’t sound like too much of a pussy here or it will turn her off. Remember, you’re not using eHarmony to get married. You’re using Uberhorny to get laid!

They Want Excitement
What do women want more than sex in the bedroom? They want adventure and lots of it! Most women are very timid when it comes to being wild or adventurous. They often hold back in an attempt to not look too wild. They do this because they want men to think they are sweet and kind but deep down they are fucking wild! I promise that most women want a guy that’s willing to show them a wild ride in and out of the bedroom.

They Want Rough Sex
Show me a woman that hates rough sex and I’ll convince her otherwise! What do women want more than typically slow love-making? They want to get their pussies pounded hard as fuck! I’m talking sweat dripping, grabbing, tossing, downright rough as fuck sex. Any woman that says she doesn’t enjoy it or hasn’t enjoyed it obviously isn’t living life to the fullest. Either that or she’s lying to you!

Well, when someone asks you the infamous question, “What do women want” you can now sit them down at the bar and tell them a few things. In fact, brag that you know things that women want but don’t say. I also suggest you spend time working on talking to some girls and giving one or two of them what they want!

Why Having An Affair Online Is A Good Idea

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Having an affair online is actually a good idea. Most people think that it’s a bad idea to try and have an affair online. I’m here to tell you that it’s probably the best way to have one. If you’re not convinced after reading this article then you probably not cut out to have an affair to begin with. Just read this and find out why it’s the best option for you.

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Why Having An Affair Online Just Works

Here are a few really solid reasons why having an affair online works great for getting laid.

Same Motives
There’s nothing worse than trying to date someone that has different motives than you. The good thing about those trying to have an affair online is that they are trying to accomplish the same thing that you are. There’s no question on the motive, it’s simply to try and meet a horny partner you can bang. Motives matter and if you have the same motives as another, you’re likely to have a better chance of success.

Safe & Secure
Casual dating sites and even safer, affair dating sites, are meant to connect you with people that are looking to have an affair. That connection is priceless and all the people that you meet are trying to stay safe and secure and just hook up. Most of the sites protect your identity and information very well. I know that this site does a fantastic job of protecting their members. It’s safe for you to join most sites and they take pride in keeping their members safe.

No Strings Attached
Having an affair online often implies that the affair is a no strings attached affair. That means that you don’t have to worry about dealing with any long-term relationships. There’s nothing worse than having sex with someone during a date that then lets you know then want something more. You don’t have to worry about people getting attached when you’re having an affair online.

It’s A Community
Online dating sites are not just dating sites, but they are communities. The great thing about communities are, that they are filled with people that want to help out one another. I know it sounds strange but even affair dating sites have members that believe in teamwork and community. Both the members and the site operators work hard to keep the online community positive and united.

I would always choose to join an affair dating site over meeting someone offline any day. I’ve never had an affair offline that’s ended positively.

Things To Do After Breaking Up

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If you’ve recently broken  up with an ex, then things can be a bit tough. I get it and I know you’re going  through a tough time. But I’m going  to be brutally honest with you here when I say this…Unless you’re in fucking high school then get over that shit! Breakups suck and you’ll definitely be able to get over it. It’s just a matter of time. In fact, I’m going to do you a solid and share some tips that I’ve personally used in the past to get over a hot girl I was serious with. I’ve since stopped trying to get girlfriends and I’m definitely not trying to get my ex girlfriend back. Instead, I just have sex with any girls that come my way. That’s kind of irrelevant here though. Let me instead focus on helping you out here with a few tips.

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Tips For After Breaking Up To Make Life Awesome

If you want to really move on for good and get your  A-game life back then I suggest you do a few of these things listed below.

Delete Her Number

For starters, you’ve got to delete the girls number that you’ve just broken up with. Keeping her attached to your  Zach Morris cell phone is only going to make things worse. Delete that shit and don’t ever add it again. If she sends you a message, sure you can read it but don’t ever save the number. It’s only going to lead to you wanting her back.

Go To A Festival Or Party

When I broke up with my last girlfriend, I took a trip to a crazy weekend concert and it was amazing. I met so many people there and even ended up hooking up with someone while I was there. It truly was a great time! I suggest that you check out Lollapalooza or Austin City Limits. You’ll have a blast and you may ever meet someone to fuck there. As an added bonus I’ll tell you what I did. I connected with a couple girls using my hookup app and that’s how I really connected with them at the festival. It was a blast and I’ll never forget it!

 Go On A Trip

If you can afford to do it, I’d suggest going on a trip somewhere. Somewhere tropical with lots of drinking involved. You’re going to have the time of your life if you do and I can almost guarantee that you’ll get lucky or at least meet some cool people on your trip. I went to Costa Rica recently and met some awesome people that were there. Life is all about new experiences and not dwelling on the past!

Start Working Out

Want to get over breaking up with your ex? Bring your “self-status” up to a better you and she won’t even be in the same category as you. I suggest you do this starting with the physical aspects. Start crushing the gym and get on a diet. Most people will break up with someone and they go through this tough slump of eating like shit and treating their bodies poorly. I’d suggest that you not do that really. Instead, get ripped and hotter girls will want to fuck you.

Be Spontaneous

After breaking up with someone, all you can think of is things that you used to do with them. There’s only one way to get over that and it’s to be spontaneous. Go for a walk or hit a new bar and try talking to someone to make friends. Another thing you could do is join a dating site and try to find someone to hook up with. Whatever you do, just make sure it’s not all that predictable because that’ll get you nowhere in your head.

Good luck and if you have any issues with breaking up with someone or any post break up issues you can always email me!

 

How To Make Friends In College

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Starting your first year at college? I bet you want to make some friends to both hang out with and even have sex with, right? Well, finding new people to befriend at college during your first year can be a very intimidating experience for some. During your first year, you will meet all kinds of people with different interests and hobbies. With so many freshmen entering college the same year as you do, you are bound to find someone who shares the same interests as yours. If you can’t meet them in person, surely you can meet them using an online network like Uberhorny or even Facebook for that matter.

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Tips To Making Friends In College

In order to attract people and make new friends without being awkward, here are some tips to take on:

Be Yourself

Being yourself is the first thing you need to master when you enter college. The last thing you want to do is end up being friends with people where you can’t be yourself.

Try not to be friends with people especially where you have to take on a fake persona to keep them interested. Trust me, the real people in college are the ones that get laid the most. The people that are fake as fuck typically end up getting talked about and end up with no friends.

Be Unique

Since everyone of us are essentially unique in our own way, don’t be hesitant in showing your uniqueness to people.

Whether you like playing video games, crushing beers or enjoy watching movies, make sure you are very clear with the people you get in touch with. You are bound to find friends in college that have the interests and the same hobbies as you.

Get Into A Club

One of the biggest places to find new like-minded people in college is by joining clubs. When you enter the college, look for all kinds of clubs and join the one that attracts you the most and allows you to be yourself.

It doesn’t matter if it’s too late for you to join the club, you can join one at any time and still be welcomed because the nature of the club is all about getting social and meeting new people where you can share your interests.

Find An Internship

Many colleges offer students in house jobs to take while they study. Don’t be afraid to take on a simple part time job in your college.

This is also one of the best ways to get in touch with new people because you will be spending a lot of time working with colleagues.

College Facebook Page

Join your college Facebook page as soon as you are in one. Try to be active in the page and be useful to others and you will soon find a lot of people sending you friend requests and you’ll easily make tons of friends.

Horny College Network

Another way to make friends in college is to join a horny college network. No, I’m not talking about Snapchat or anything mainstream. I’m talking about joining a sex network on your campus. This has been the best way for me to meet horny college girls. It’s basically like going on a spring break on campus!

Now that I’ve given you a number of different ways to meet people while in college, you should officially have no problem meeting anyone during your college years.

Tips For Avoiding Social Awkwardness

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Social awkwardness is a problem faced by a lot of people. It is the situation where our fears take control and we feel that if we start to socialize with someone, something we might say will turn into someone ridiculing us. Social awkwardness hence proves to be a real nuisance which causes people to eventually become anti-social, i.e. avoiding contact with everyone. Getting away from being socially awkward may seem tough to you until you realize that every single one of us have the same fears as you. Once you learn how to control the situation, you will be easily enjoying your interactions instead of fearing them.

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How To Fix Social Awkwardness

Social awkwardness can be fixed easily by following these simple tips I’ve covered below. If you think that this has absolutely nothing to do with dating, then you’re 100% wrong. It’s completely related and something that needs to be avoided at all costs if you want to get laid. In fact, you’ve got to get over this hump on your first date or you’re not getting laid for sure. Don’t blow it!

Change The Way You Think

As mentioned above, social awkwardness happens to everyone from time to time. So ,think about it as a general issue that not only you have to deal with but also everyone around you. You are not alone dealing with this ordeal. Once you start thinking that everyone suffers from this problem, you will be more open and accepting people knowing that they too have their fears.

Boost Your Confidence

One of the biggest reasons why people face social awkwardness is due to less confidence or low self-esteem. Stop thinking low about yourself. Referring to yourself as dirt is a bad idea. Don’t think of yourself as being useless because we all are useful in some manner to others. You probably have a lot to say to others so don’t be afraid to talk about your interests and hobbies. You are likely going to find someone who shares the same interests.

Don’t Over Think

If you almost always think what the other person may think about you, it will cause you to stop and not interact at all. Try to remain calm and forget thinking about what other people think about you. Yes, there are some people who will think negatively, but this isn’t common. In fact, it’s quite rare. So go out and talk to someone regardless of their opinion about you.

Listen To Others

If you aren’t the talkative kind, you can simply be social by listening to what other people have to say. Listening is also a social trait that many people have a tough time with. You can occasionally put your own opinion on the table, so don’t think you can’t . However,  if you can manage to listen to someone for a while, it will boost your confidence and self-esteem because you’ll know you are being useful to someone and that is more than enough.

If you plan on interacting with anyone that you meet on a local dating site then you absolutely have to get over this. If you can’t then you’re going to be in big trouble. It’s certainly going to have an impact on whether or not you get laid.

What Do Women Find Attractive

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Women are generally very hard to impress and even harder to read. If you want to know what a woman finds attractive, you will probably have to read a lot about the dynamics of attracting women. Either that or you can just read my entire blog and you’ll know everything you need to know.

While men are generally physically attracted to women, on the other hand, women are attracted to a combination of both physical and mental traits of a man. Following are some of the general traits that most women find attractive in men.

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Here’s What Women Find Attractive

Keep in mind that women are very different when it comes to attraction and you should not generalize them. One woman may find physical traits attractive while the other may be interested in mental traits. It is up to you to figure out what the woman you are interested in finds attractive. For starters, here are the common traits.

Facial Hair

There is a reason why most Hollywood superstars go without shaving their facial hair. Leonardo DiCaprio, Ben Affleck, and other celebs prefer to not shave. Is it because women love facial hair? I don’t know. I’m going to go out on a limb and say that women love a bit of facial hair in the form of stubble. If you want to attract a woman and hit her sweet spot, try to keep a bit of facial hair. Just remember not to go all jungle style guy who doesn’t shave at all. A good beard style also works but a stubble is what most women find most attractive based on my personal experience.

Slow And Deep Voice

Has a woman ever told you that they find pilots very sexy? Pilots are known to have a weird slow and deep accent that women find very attractive. So when it comes to voices, try and speak slowly and clear. Your voice will automatically sound very deep. If you have a very shrill voice, don’t worry. There are several training programs out there that can help you turn your voice into an instant boner type voice for women. Try to be slow with words as much as you can and that should be good enough. If you’re lucky, you’ll be chatting with her in person on a date after turning her on during your first phone conversation.

Your Height

Being tall is great. Women find it extremely hot to date a guy who is tall. But this doesn’t mean you have to be extraordinary tall to impress a woman. The general idea is that women find men who are taller than them. So if you are dating a woman who is like a few feet shorter than you, she is likely very attracted to you. But if you found a woman who is only inches shorter than you, or is the same height or taller, you will find it hard to impress her with this trait. Whatever you do, you don’t need to get any lifts for your shoes or anything. Just try and find some shorter women to date.

Now, I’m not saying that these are the only things that women are attracted to but they are a few of the factors. Trust me, you’ll be able to come up with more once you start thinking about it. Most importantly, you need to remember that if you can’t find any way to “attract her” then you won’t be getting laid anytime soon. The objective is to attract girls and fuck them. Never forget that.