What Does FWB Mean?

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It’s another new perfect day and you know what that means? Another chance to bang some horny local girls. But first, before you start looking for someone to bang, I want to go over what FWB means. I’ve had a few people contact me stating that they’ve recently seen this posted on various dating profiles and they have absolutely no idea what it means. I’ll do my best to clear this up for you right now.

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Here’s What FWB Means

If you’re not familiar with this, FWB is an acronym for “Friends With Benefits” and it’s quite commonly used in the online dating world today. When you see this acronym or “saying” on a person’s profile then it means that they are looking to make friends with someone that they can have sex with. That’s right, I’m talking about nothing extremely romantic. If anything, they are looking for a friend to fuck. Sounds simple right? Exactly! That’s because it is.

Now, if you yourself are looking for to start an FWB relationship with someone, there are a few things that you need to understand. For starters, it’s not okay to try and turn this relationship into anything stronger. That’s a casual dating no-no. In fact, it might be the biggest online dating mistake that you ever make. If someone just wants to fuck then you just fuck them and that’s it. Do not under any circumstances try and make the relationship more than that. It will only lead to problems if you do.

If you’re interested in getting into an fwb or “friends with benefits” type dating situation then your first step is to join a casual dating site. You’ll want to join one that caters to this type of matchmaking. For example, Uberhorny is a great site to join if you just want to bang because there are so many others on the site that want to do the same.

Next, you need to add the FWB or “friends with benefits” saying to your dating profile. If you have the option to select this type of relationship as a “seeking” status, then you should do so. I’m telling you this because I know it matters, do not join Match.com or eHarmony.com if you’re looking to get into an FWB type of relationship. Doing so will literally set yourself up for failure.

How To Have A Threesome Successfully

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Threesomes have increasingly become popular among modern couples who want to escape a typical boring relationship and add a bit of spark to their sex life. I personally love haivng a threesome, especially when it’s with someone or people I meet using any casual hookup site.

Not too long ago, the idea of having a threesome was considered to be taboo, until it was made popular through mainstream media. Now it’s accepted and it’s easier than ever to arrange one too.

Even today, a lot of TV shows and movies are showing threesomes openly. This certainly makes the public feel more comfortable and open towards having one. Truth be told, it’s a very popular fantasy, but people rarely engage in it as much as they’d like. If you have already decided that you want to do a threesome, you need to make sure you’re prepared to do it. If you are, then you’re going to end up having tons of fun. Here are a few things to take into consideration when planning a threesome.

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Things To Remeber When Planning A Threesome

The first thing you need to avoid is any form of miscommunication with your partner. That is if you’re not single. Make sure you very clearly discuss the idea of having the threesome together. Make sure your talk involves all the expectations, fears and boundaries with the people involved. Now, if you’re the single party, then you’re in luck! It’s all about just fucking in that case for you.

Threesomes are incredibly great and successful if both of you only care about having a different sexual experience. In other words, it should not involve any sort of emotional connection between the three people involved. That only causes problems in the long run.

The most important thing is setting boundaries for the both of you. Talk to your partner(s) about the idea and discuss what you want to achieve when it comes to your threesome. Decide whether you want to have a threesome with a third male partner or a female partner. Will you be meeting this new person or will you simply invite them over based on their attraction? If you’re looking to meet someone to invite, I’d suggest you use a site like Uberhorny to find a potential partner.

If you plan on bringing in a third person, then it’s also very important to not make the person you are with jealous. If they see you enjoying your time with the third person, it could cause problems. Ensure that you clearly tell your partner that no matter what happens, you will stick with your commitment with them.

You must also make sure that the third person is not connected to either of you in any way. In many threesome cases where a good friend is involved, it often causes problems. You want someone who you do not know personally to be your third partner because you want to keep your threesome a secret. You want to say good bye to the third person after you are done.

If you occasionally like having threesomes and you incorporate them as a part of your sex life then more power to you!

How To Get Out Of The Friend Zone

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So you have a crush on a girl you know and you really want to start a relationship with her. However, You’re stuck in the friend zone. She thinks of you more as being a close friend. She intends on keeping you as a friend rather than becoming someone you can bang. This type of situation is called the friend zone and it is notoriously hard to get out of it. It absolutely sucks to be in the friend zone too. But fear not, if you are serious and determined about winning this girl over no matter what, there is a way to get out of this zone. You’ve got to pay attention and listen closely.

Follow the following tips below and make sure you are very determined to escape the friend zone or it won’t happen. So, knuckle up my friend because it’s going to be a rough ride!

Stop Being The Nice Guy
One of the biggest reasons why you are in a friend zone today is because of your friendly and nice nature towards the girl you want to fuck. Ever wonder why all the jackasses get the girls? You’re being so nice to the girl that she has started seeing you as a best friend type individual versus someone that she’d actually like to get busy with. Build up some confidence and attitude (but don’t be a dickhead) and keep the nice factor to the minimum. When she realizes that you are ignoring her, she may naturally start getting attracted to you because that’s just how most women are.

Show Her You’re Into Other Girls
Jealousy is a huge factor when it comes to women. They get jealous. I mean really fucking jealous! If you constantly tell her and show her that other chicks dig you a lot, she may start getting jealous. When she becomes jealous of your female friends, she may start seeing you differently. She may try to grab your attention more and that will likely work in your favor.

Hide Your Feelings
If you constantly tell her that you can’t imagine living without her, she may start thinking that you are desperate for her attention. This may cause her to likely start ignoring you. Stop showing her that you really want her because no one likes someone who shows they’re needy.

Take Risks, Touch HerThe problem with nice guys is that they often don’t break the barrier of touching the girl they like. If you don’t get a little physical with the girl you like, you may never be able to attract her. Don’t feel guilty that she won’t like the idea of you touching her.

The problem with nice guys is that they often don’t break the barrier of touching the girl they like. If you don’t get a little physical with the girl you like, you may never be able to attract her. Don’t feel guilty that she won’t like the idea of you touching her. You need to do it in a very casual manner. I’m not talking about groping the poor girl. But you need to be somewhat physical, or at least, try to establish a physical connection if you’re truly interested in her. Find reasons to touch her a bit here and there casually and watch how your relationship progresses. Touching is a huge factor in bringing attraction in a partner. Make her comfortable with casual approach.

Well, those are just a few suggestions for you if you’re trying to get out of the friends zone. Good luck!

Why Spring Break Is Perfect For Dating

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March is right around the corner and if you don’t know what that means, it means that spring break is almost here and things are going to start getting pretty crazy! If you’re not trying to meet someone that’s DTF during spring break then you’re nuts! It’s the perfect time for dating.

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Reasons Why Spring Break Is Dating Time

It’s A Hookup Goldmine
Okay, so if you’ve never been on any spring break trips with your friends then you’re missing out. It’s a known fact that spring break is considered to be a hookup goldmine. In fact, it’s probably one of the most sought after times that people actually want to fuck without a care in the world.

Girls Are Drunk
That’s right! Girls get drunk on spring break and that makes things that much more interesting. Kegs, shots, party balls and all that jazz. Next thing you know, you meet a girl on a dating app and you went from taking shots to banging her. It’s classic! Just make sure you don’t do anything stupid while you’re drunk. Worst case, you won’t have to use any typical PUA one liners, at least, to spark things up. The booze does that for you.

Time To Try Something New
College students love trying new shit. Dating someone online might be something new for someone out there and maybe even hooking up with some random is too. Whatever. You get the picture I think, right?

Everyone’s Traveling
During my spring break phase, I slightly remember traveling to nice exotic locations with friends to get drunk and high. When you’re traveling, there’s a good chance you’re going to meet people that you’ll never ever see again in your lifetime. Use that to your advantage.

Half Naked Already
If you’re on a trip to some crazy beach in Florida or if you’re lucky maybe Cancun, then you’re already surrounded by girls that are half naked. Now is the time to get them naked, not when they are fully dressed. Hit the water and fuck a girl. You only live once!

Good luck on your spring break adventures!

How To Tell If A Girl Likes You

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The mind of a female is pretty hard to understand. Her emotions and how she reacts towards a man she likes is quite different from how she reacts towards the average guy.  Unlike us, women don’t just think about eating, sleeping and having sex. They have a whole different way of doing things and their emotions are what give away their thoughts. Sometimes it’s important to be able to tell if a girl likes you or not. Since the rise of social media and mobile phone applications, how men and women react and flirt has changed a lot. If a woman or girl is into you, she’s eventually going to start showing you signs. It is then up to you to fine-tune your skills so that you can easily catch on to those signs. You must then do something about it!

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Here’s How To Tell If A Girl Likes You

Here’s how you can learn to pick up on the positive signals of a woman and determine whether she’s into you or not.

She laughs a lot
Whether you are talking using a dating app, via text, on the phone or face to face, if a girl is into you, she’s going to laugh a lot. Just tell her any joke or say something silly and see how she reacts. She’s trying to tell you that she is enjoying communicating with you a lot and loves your company.

Another thing she may do is show you that she is really interested in whatever you say to her. Watch her attention towards you. If she is paying close attention to whatever you are saying, there is a huge chance she digs you secretly. Why else would she want to put in the effort of having a conversation with you. It’s not because you’re cool. It’s because she’s either into you or she’s not!

She’ll post stuff that will interest you on Twitter/Instagram/Facebook
When a girl likes a guy, she will deliberately post stuff that might interest you. And she’ll possibly even tag you. For example, if you play video games and you know that your crush has no interest in video games but she still posts an update about something interests you and then tags you in it. It probably means she’s trying to catch your attention and that she’s into you.

She starts the conversation
One of the biggest hints that she’s into you comes in the form if she keeps on starting a conversation with you on random topic. For example, if she texts you telling you something silly happened to her at work or in class, she probably likes you and wants to talk to you. She may even want to fuck you!

She asks you to accompany her
This is a huge sign especially if she asks you to accompany her on a concert/movie/theater or any other activity. This means she wants to go out with you and probably likes you. At this point, you should do whatever it is that you need to do in order to try and get her to want to have sex with you. Try and turn her on at the event that you accompany her without being too much of a sleaze.

How To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back

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I typically don’t write on this topic but I’ve had so many conversations with people this week on how to get your ex girlfriend back that I just had to share it with you. Has your girlfriend recently broke up with you? If so, then good! You should start by immediately joining a dating site to try and find someone to bang regardless of whether or not you want to get back together with her. Just do it. Anyway, breaking up can be really hard for the both of you but it doesn’t mean that it is the end of a relationship. If she broke up with you, there has to be a reason behind it. Hopefully, the reason wasn’t that you sucked in bed!

Get Back With Your Ex Girlfriend

If you really want her back in your life again, you must understand and determine why she broke up with you in the first place. Getting your ex girlfriend back isn’t impossible. It requires a few steps and compromises but in the end, you can always get her back if you are serious. Following are some of the best things to do after a break up to get her back again. Remember what I said though about hooking up online. I’d suggest trying to find a girl to fuck in the interim!

Give Her Some Space

When you break up with your ex girlfriend, try not to act like you desperately need her back in your life. Instead, get into a complete no contact zone for a couple of days. During the no contact period, make sure you do not get in touch with her no matter what happens. If she contacts you, do your best to ignore it.

This no contact period is for two reasons. One, she will start forgetting about the negative picture you set which made her split up with you in the first place and secondly, she will get enough time to think about the two of you once again. Hopefully, she’ll be thinking about how awesome the sex was!

The no contact period should be at least 7-10 days because that is the bare minimum time when she finally gets rid of all the negative thoughts but still has the good memories intact.

During this time, if she tries to contact you, do not answer her messages or texts. You will have to disappear completely and make her wonder what happened to you.

Return As The New You

During the no contact period, focus on the negative parts of your personality and start improving them. For example, if there is a particular habit your girlfriend didn’t like, change that. You have to improve on the negative points to finally have something to offer her and get her back.

During this period try to grieve as much as you can and then go out and have fun. If you return to your girlfriend in the same miserable condition you left, things aren’t going to turn out good. It’s just a cyclic cycle that you’ll be creating.

Return as a better person and show her that you are happy but do remind her of the good times you had together. If you nail this perfectly, she will come back to you in no time. I also suggest that you dress like a boss and make sure she notices that you’re threads are top notch. If she doesn’t, then that’s okay too. That’s why I suggested that you use the dating sites that exist out there and try your best to get laid as often as possible in your downtime. Remember, you’re not the only single person trying to get over someone. There’s plenty of girls out there on horny dating sites that are looking to fuck! Go find them and do it!

The Lean Casual Dating Checklist

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Eric Ries once wrote a book called The Lean Startup. It was about launching a product and doing so as quickly as possible with the bare essentials in order to be successful. Well, I was reading that book and I actually created my version of that called the lean casual dating checklist. It’s pretty much a checklist of everything that I think is essential when it comes to both using dating sites and being prepared for sex at any place and anytime.

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Here’s The Lean Casual Dating Checklist

Have Condoms
You guessed it. If you’re using a dating site or app then you need to be prepared at ALL TIMES just in case that one chance comes along where you can actually get laid. In that case, you better have condoms on you. Don’t ask questions, just go get some condoms. Simple as that really. Do it and come back and read the rest of this post.  (And also read the first date advice article.)

Clean Shorts
A topic that some might be too embarrassed to admit but you my friend might be the owner of some old underwear. In which case, you need to lose those things and pick up a pair of fresh undies to impress. If you’re wearing underwear that’s just completely raggedy then you’re off to a bad start.

Money
Even if you’re not paying for it, you’re still paying for it. Have some cash on you at all times. I suggest having a minimum of one hundred dollars on you if you want to be extra prepared. No one likes to look like a chump with empty pockets and it’s certainly not going to get you anywhere with the ladies.

Credit Card
Just in case you run out of cash, I’d suggest having a credit card on your person at all times. I can’t tell you how handy this has been in the event that I run into someone I meet online and they want to get a hotel room right then to bang. Be ready for it.

Cell Phone
You will, of course, need a cell phone to connect via your dating website of choice. If you don’t have a smartphone then I suggest you step your game up today.

Excuse
Lastly and I hate to bring this one up but you need to have an excuse. What I mean by that is that you need to have an out if you decide you don’t want to go through with the hookup. Make sure you have someone on the back-end that you can count on to relieve you of this.

That my friend is that short and sweet lean casual dating checklist and that’s all you need in order to get your hookup success going!

Dating Profiles Advice: Things To Stop Mentioning Now

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There are certain things that I need to bring to your attention right away and that’s mentioning stupid things on your dating profiles. I give great dating profiles advice, so I’ve put together a list of different things that you need to stop mentioning immediately on your profiles. Take a moment to read this in its entirety.

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Dating Profile Advice To Stop Mentioning Certain Things

Tinderella
No one gives a shit whether or not you’re seriously looking for your Tinder Cinderella or so called, “Tinderalla.” Honestly, if you use this in your profile you’re going to look like an idiot. The women on these sites are not that gullible. Don’t even try it.

I’m Shy, Please Message Me
Avoid using the typical, you make the first move message. It screams laziness and already seems like you’re not willing to put in any work. If you can’t write a simple message, how the heck do you expect to get laid. Really?  You’ll never get a first date if you do that crap.

Serious Inquiries Only
I don’t even know what that means nor does anyone else reading your profile. If you’re looking for serious inquiries only then it sounds like you’re selling something. Unless you’re an escort, you better remove that from your profile immediately. You are online to hookup with someone. You are not conducting an interview here so really, cut the shit.

Just Moved Here
Stop telling everyone that you just moved to the city and that you’re looking for someone to help show you around the city. That’s bullshit and no one wants to be your personal tour guide. They want to bang. You’re not fooling anyone.

Why Did I Join This
If you have to put this on your dating profile in an attempt to look cool or attract others, you are not going to be successful doing so. No one knows why you joined this other than you so stop asking stupid questions.

I’m Looking For Fun
If you have to tell people that you’re looking for fun then I question your intelligence. We are all looking for fun online. Heck, the only reason we all joined a dating website was to have fun and get laid. If you have to literally write that then I bet you’ve never gotten laid online.

I Love Everything
Don’t write your profile as if you love everything in the world. It’s impossible and no one really cares what you love. They only care if you’re down to fuck. If you are, then just say it and leave it at that. Leave out your love for puppies, puzzles and pizza. Seriously.

Those are a few basic suggestions to consider when writing your profile. I strongly urge that you stop mentioning everything that I’ve covered here. Start taking this advice I’m giving on dating profiles because it’s one of the most important parts of dating online.

First Date 101 and Things You Want To Happen

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First dates can be a bit nerve-racking, even when you’re using a casual dating app to try and get lucky. For many that have removed themselves from the dating game for quite some time, it may leave you, even more anxious. I’ve created what I call the  “first date 101” list which lists a number of things that you’ll want to be aware of a first date in order to help you focus more on accomplishing tasks versus being nervous.

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First Date 101 Checklist

Here’s a simple first date checklist that can be applied to casual dating as well as mainstream dating. There is a stronger focus on casual dating here. Sorry, I like hooking up. LOL!

Make Her Laugh

Women like men that have a sense of humor. You need to be sure to try and make her laugh. This is a definite your first date 101 list and it should be included. Making your date laugh can help break the ice and put everyone in a calmer mood.

Buy Her A Drink

I know, it’s probably assumed but I’m going to mention it anyway. You’ll want to try and buy your date a drink. Alcohol can really make for a fun date so long as both of you don’t consume too much.

Get Her To Share Something

This is a checklist essential! If you want to get in her pants, you’ll have to get her to open up to you about herself. I always suggest trying to get your date to share something personal and each time that I’ve been able to do this, I’ve increased my chances of getting laid for sure.

Get Her To A Hotel

You guessed it right here! You’ll want to add this to your checklist, especially if you’ve got your eye on the prize and by that I’m referring to getting laid. Getting your date to a hotel will put you one step closer to getting laid.

Get Her To Touch You

I’ve personally had seen my chances of getting laid increase when my date is more physical during a first date. Getting your date to touch you should definitely be on your checklist.

Yes, I know that it’s a really short first date 101 checklist but I believe in focusing on a few important things versus a lot of the little things. Once you meet someone using one of the best dating sites for hooking up, line up a date and read this again before you go out with them!

Autocomplete Created A Bad Dating Profile

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Okay, I normally don’t share things other than my personal experiences on this site but I couldn’t resist sharing this guys profile. He broke the ultimate rule of online dating and that’s creating a really bad dating profile. This guy took things to new heights and he did so using the infamous Autocomplete from Google. Yup, you guessed it! It was pretty ridiculous.

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Guy Creates A Bad Dating Profile Using Autocomplete

First off, the guy that did this is known on Twitter as TechnicallyRon. I have no idea why on Earth he would have done this unless it was for some PR stunt. What I can say is that it is a prime example as to why you need to hand type and put real thought into your online dating profile.

Apparently, Autocomplete had this guy “living in a shed” and being “born in the dark.” One thing that it did do fairly successfully was present things that he enjoyed. That is, assuming that he enjoys taking long walks on the beach and spending time with turtles. He also put down that he likes dogs and likes to party.

Oh but it gets much better! According to Autocomplete, his ideal partner is someone that is addicted to booze who can fix his car. It goes on and on here people. Here’s the screenshot of the profile that he set up.

Guys, I’m telling you one last time. If you’re desperately seeking to get laid, do not make the idiotic move of posting an Autocomplete profile. It’s bound to not get you anywhere other than a few good laughs from some nerds and Internet folks.

TechnicallyRon, I have a shitload of respect for you just because you helped point out how important this aspect of dating really is. Had you not done this then none of us would know how seriously important it is for us to describe our wants and needs when it comes to getting laid. In basic terms that mean just be honest and write a normal dating profile if you want to find women to have sex with.