How To Be More Confident When Dating Online

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If you want to successfully date locals online, then you need to be confident enough to do so. Unfortunately, there are people in this world who are not happy with their position in life, so they judge others to make themselves feel better. If you are at the receiving end of the judging, it doesn’t feel good. Too many people let this kind of judgment rule them. They often make the mistake of letting it affect how they see themselves. This can have multiple negative implications on the way you interact with people and even how successful you are in your life. Guess what, it can impact your dating life big time!

I’m going to discuss some ways that you can counter this type of behavior and stay focused on yourself rather than what others think of you. If you follow this advice, you will be a much happier and more confident person because of it.

How To Be More Confident

Tips For Becoming More Confident (Ultimately Boosting Your Online Dating Success)

Here are some of the most important things that you need understand if you want to be more confident. The answers are not what you may think. Here are the things that you need to know…

Love Your Flaws

The first thing that you need to realize is that no one is perfect and you shouldn’t try to be. There are plenty of local horny singles that don’t care to go on dates with perfect people. Don’t beat yourself up for making a mistake or making a wrong decision to connect with someone that sees your flaws. If someone points out your flaws, you must realize that they have just as many flaws as you do and they are pointing fingers at you so they can feel better about themselves. This realization alone can help you embrace your imperfections and develop a better attitude about yourself and your flaws may even improve. I always tell people to not give a crap about what other people think.

Advantages and Disadvantages of Caring

If you really sit down and think about the good and bad things that come with caring what people think, you will realize that there are absolutely no advantages. That couldn’t hold more true with people you are meeting online for sex. No one is running your life but you and the more merit you give to other people’s perception of you, the more you will stray from the person that you are. Make a list of the disadvantages and you will see that it is a long one and that letting other people dictate your worth will only hurt you.

People Who Judge Are Exposing Their Weaknesses

Have you ever heard the expression, “haters gonna hate”? It is very likely that your haters despise themselves more than they do you. The only reason they are judging you is because they are afraid to turn that judgment on themselves. Don’t allow yourself to be a tool for someone to feel better about themselves. No one who is a positive person will ever judge you or criticize you, so what good does it do to listen to these people? Haters gonna hate and that’s just the way it is.

Know What You Want And Stay Focused

The best way to silence the haters is to be successful and enlightened. They may not stop hating on you, but they will certainly make themselves look petty and miserable. If someone is hating on you even though you are motivated and focused on your goals; you’re probably doing something right and they are letting you know how jealous they are. Either way, their opinion of you does not matter.

Look the bottom line is this, do whatever you can to avoid haters, whether they are the same sex or opposite sex. There are far too many people out there in this world looking to have sex today. Want to show all the haters that you’re a boss? Go out there and find a hot tall girl to go on a date with. You’ll get looks like never before.

Do Girls Really Like Shy Guys (In General)?

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Women in general are more attracted to men that are outgoing and open. However, that’s not to say the shy guy doesn’t have a chance of getting laid. Did you know that almost 50% of the individuals living in the United States are shy?

Most people have an insecure feeling that makes them feel intensely shy. You can do lots of things to meet women if you’re shy. It’s important to showcase your strengths more than anything. I’m going to help you figure this all out right now, but first, let’s answer the question…

Do Girls Like Shy Guys?

Find Out If Girls Like Shy Guys

The answer to this question is simple…YES, girls like shy guys. Most girls may not admit that fact, but they really do. Did you know that girls who are typically attracted to outgoing men secretly like shy guys…

It’s possible that girls like shy guys because it’s more of a challenge to score them. Well, If you’re a guy, then I’m going to give you some tips to on how to connect with girls enough to possibly bang.

Make Eye Contact

If you want to attract a girl, then you must make eye contact with them. Once you do, hold the contact for a few seconds. In the event that she gives you facial recognition then you’re in luck. If you think she’s totally not interested, then you need to look away and forget about it.

Good Posture

Your posture matters, especially when you’re shy. Shy guys should always stand and sit with confidence. If you pose confidently, then there’s a good chance that you’ll feel more confident as a direct result. If you want better posture, then you should workout more.

Use Your Brain

Shy guys must use their brain if they want to connect with hot local girls. Thinkers make women think and that in itself seems to turn women on like never before. It’s rare that women meet men that are uber intelligent that use their brains. Today you need to show that you’ve got brains if you want to mack it with hot women, especially if you’re shy AF.

Ask Questions

Shy guys need to muscle up and ask questions to girls. Shy men that don’t ask questions aren’t going to get horny girls. Whether you’re extremely shy or just partially shy, you need to get up the courage to ask questions. Don’t be a creep but ask simple questions that help spark the conversation.

These are the basics that shy guys need to think about when attempting to meet women. Should you choose to not do any of them, then you’re going to hook up with less women. Simple as that really.

The New Dating Rules of 2017

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Guess what? It’s 2017 and there are new rules to the game today. Gone are the days of basic matchmaking. Anyone that’s still practicing old school dating tactics is losing out big time. Those that have made shifts to the new age are far more likely to get some action in the bedroom. Don’t worry, I’ll tell you everything that’s changed or I’ll try my best to do so…

New Dating Rules of 2017

Simple New Dating Rules of 2017

These are the most important new age dating rules to understand this year. If you want to get lucky in 2017 then you best think about these things…

Mobile Dating Today

It’s all about the mobile dating and nothing more really today. So many users have abandoned their desktop computers completely. Heck, some of the new age apps don’t even work on a desktop. Ain’t that something! If you’re not using the Uber horny app then you’re leaving plenty of horny members hanging. That’s all I’m saying.

Sexting

Honestly, thank god this is in style because I love sending text messages to girls! It used to be known as dirty talking but that’s a thing of the past. Sending sext messages is the way to go these days.

Many Partners

In the good old days many people would date one person and call it a day. Those days are long gone. It’s officially acceptable for you to date multiple people these days. In the event that you don’t like that, then you need to join Christian Mingle or something, sorry.

Video Dating

People are going on virtual dates these days and they are doing it completely nude. Do not be afraid to connect with someone for a nude chat. I remember way back when someone invented the VHS recorded intro for dating services. That was a big deal back in the day. Look how far we’ve come. It’s pretty incredible, to say the least!

Skipping Dinner

It’s perfectly normal in 2017 to skip dinner and dive right into drinks and sex. I’ve done this on multiple occasions and it seems like some women actually respect that you value their time enough to not take up too much of it. Sometimes I just give her the hotel room number and have her meet me upstairs. LOL, that’s acceptable AF today!

Well, that’s what 2017 has to offer for you today. If you have any questions, let me know and I’ll do my best to answer them! In the meantime, I’m going to try and connect with some locals to smash tonight.

Houston Superbowl LI – Party Hookup Tips

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I’ve been known to enjoy football and with the Superbowl just right around the corner, I’ve never been more excited. No, I’m not a Patriots fan really. In fact, the only thing I like about Tom Brady is his smoking hot wife! However, I absolutely love football and a Superbowl party is the perfect opportunity to hookup with someone. I’ll give you some insight as to how you can accomplish this task. It’s not as tough as it sounds.

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Superbowl LI Party Tips

Simple Superbowl Party Hookup Tips Proven To Work

What I’m about to share with you couldn’t possibly get any easier. This is, in fact, perfect timing for hooking up with someone. If you play your cards right, you might score a touchdown yourself that night. Find out what you need to do to make that happen!

Pre-Game Drinking

Start off with inviting people over early in the day to pre-game with you. The more drinking you get in while the game isn’t on, the better. During game time, people will be glued to their TVs and they won’t want to flirt with you. You’ve gotta prime them up for some action early.

Tells Friends To Tell Friends

I’m sure you know what friends with benefits is all about right? Well, if your friends invite their friends, then you might be able to make a strong connection with them. Perhaps strong enough to establish an FWB relationship with one or two. This works and it’s always a good idea. The more people the better.

Have Plenty of Food

If people are drinking then you need to feed them. Once the booze and food disappear, people are going to want to leave. You absolutely want to avoid that, so stock your fridge accordingly.

Contests and Games

I personally always have games in play for this special day. It allows you to connect with people and communicate more. Sometimes it’s even good to include a contest or two just be sure to keep it fun for all. Making girls mad because they lost isn’t going to get your dick wet, trust me.

Make It About The Event

Your job as the host is to make the party about the event and people at it. Don’t selfishly focus on the game. Instead, spend time hanging out with friends and new people and make sure they are comfortable. Hospitable hosts do get laid more.

Follow these simple rules and you are bound to get your trophy booty at the end of the night.

How To Keep Yourself Awake After Partying All Night

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I’ve had plenty of all-nighters in my day. The partying can be super fun but staying up all night long can be dreadful the following day. Keeping yourself awake after going hard for 24 hours is next to impossible. That is if you don’t put forth the effort to do so. If you’re in college, then I’m sure you’re planning on meeting some of the girls on campus to get drunk all night long. I dig it and I’m with you but you better know how to keep yourself awake the following day. You wanna play you gotta pay. Here’s are some tips for keeping yourself awake after a hard night of boozing and banging.

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Tips To Help Stay Awake After Partying All Night

First off, I am not a doctor so this advice shouldn’t be taken as medical advice. It’s best to go to bed versus partying until the sun rises. Now that I got that out of the way, here are some tips for you.

Proper Mindset

The first thing you need to do is convince yourself that this is, in fact, doable. Staying awake is relatively easy so long as you convince yourself that you can do it. If not, you might be setting yourself up for failure. Don’t let that happen.

Get Blood Moving

You’ll want to do whatever you can to get the blood moving in your system. That means going for a jog or walk. Don’t do anything that is too strenuous unless you think you can handle it. After all, you’re probably tired from smashing that college booty all night long. You can get a light workout in at the gym but nothing crazy Hulkamania.

Cold Showers

The only thing that’s better than cold pizza after partying all night is a cold shower. The ice cold water can provide a quick boost in energy for those daring enough to partake in it.

Eat A Good Meal

You definitely need solid food in your system if you want to survive the day. Get rid of all that shitty junk food and go for some natural foods such as fruits, veggies, and protein. I recommend crushing a rib eye steak with some crunchy veggies and a salad. That meal always gives me super human powers (so I think like to think). Eating healthy is something that you should be doing anyway if you’re dating.

Stay Busy

The second that you begin to remain in the same spot or get bored, then you’re in for some hard times the rest of the day. Staying busy helps keep your mind off the fact that you’re so tired.

H20 aka Water

Put down the Pabst Blue Ribbon or any alcohol for that matter and pick up a bottle of water. Actually, crush 5 bottles of water. This will help reduce the fatigue levels.

These may help you get through the day but I’d suggest not making too much of a habit out of it. This type of all night partying isn’t healthy for you. If you want to hook up with lots of girls you need to stay healthy. Simple as that bro!

Random Dating Spots That Might Get You Lucky

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I’m one of those guys that really enjoys meeting girls online. You know that by now if you’ve checked out my homepage. When I meet girls for the first time online, I always ask them if they’d like to go out on a date. Yes, I’m talking about a legit date! I typically don’t choose the basic bar or hotel these days. Instead, I go for unique dating spots that I think might make me stand out from the rest of the crowd. Here’s a list of random dating spots that just might help you get lucky.

Dating Spots That Will Get You Laid

Dating Spots (I Use) That Will Help You Get Lucky

These dating spots are not listed in any order. Instead, I’ve got them listed randomly because honestly, they all seem to work at one point or another.

Dancing With The Stars

Just kidding, you’re not going dancing with the stars but I do recommend going on dancing lessons. I’ve had plenty of success taking a casual date to dancing lessons and it’s gotten me laid before. The good news is that you can find Groupon and Living Social deals for this type of thing easy.

Drive-In Movie

I love taking local college girls to drive in movies because it almost always leads to me at least getting a handjob or blowjob. You’ve gotta put yourself in the right situation if you want to hookup. Being under the covers in the dark seems like a good start to me!

Art Gallery

Art galleries tend to turn women on. It gets them thinking very open minded and most of the time they serve wine in the galleries. If a local gallery is having a showing then I suggest you take your date there.

Comedy Show

Comedians break the ice and make things more fun. One thing that I suggest is not sitting in the front of the show. You don’t want to be pressured into speaking or making comments. Even worse, you don’t want to have to be the person that gets picked on at the show. Do your best to avoid all that noise!

Wine Vineyard Tastings

I love this option because women tend to get really turned on when they drink wine. Not to mention, wine has a lot of antioxidants that are very good for you. I strongly suggest that you try to take a girl to a vineyard for a tour and tasting if you live close by one.

These are all unique dating spots that I personally have had success with! It should come as no surprise that I know how to score uber horny women any day of the week. Take my advice or find yourself left in the dust.

Many Signs A Girl Might Be Into You

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Have you been spending time talking to ladies on the Internet? Perhaps you’re meeting up with girls at local hot spots to connect with them. Many guys struggle with trying to figure out if a girl likes them or not. It’s much easier than you think and there are quite a few signs that will give you an indication that she is attracted to you. Some signs are involuntary and some are purposeful. Here is a list of the most obvious signs that a girl is into you.

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Simple Signs She Might Be Into You

Here are some of the most basic signs that you might want to be on the lookout for and why. There are plenty of things that you should be on the lookout for and I’m sure that if you keep your eyes open, you will be able to pick up some of the signs that I’m going to share with you today.

Looks You in the Eye: She makes a point to look you in the eye and smile. Also, she will have an involuntary reaction of enlarged pupils which is a common and scientific sign of attraction.

Plays with or Fixes Her Hair: Women who are attracted to you, even strangers, will look at you and start either twirling their hair or fixing it to make sure she looks her best when she gets your attention.

Her Face Lights Up: This can often be an involuntary reaction. Every time she sees you, her face lifts and she has sort of a glow. Her entire face smiles at you. When you see it, you’ll know what I mean.

She Moves in Closer: She looks for any reason to move closer to you. If a girl is attracted to you, she feels the need to be near you and exhibits signs of wanting you to become aroused by her closeness.

Eagerness to Talk: She shows a clear excitement at the notion of talking to you and she will often initiate a conversation or make an effort to expand on something you are talking about.

She Bites Her Lip: This one is one of the most obvious and shows that she is about ready to jump your bones. If you make eye contact and she bites her bottom lip, you are as good as in.

She Gets the Jimmy Legs: This is another involuntary reaction. If she sees you or you get near her and she begins crossing and uncrossing her legs, she is becoming aroused by your presence.

She Laughs at Your Jokes: She is very receptive to your sense of humor and she laughs at almost everything you say. This shows that she’s endeared by you and wants to make you feel good.

She Touches You: This is an advanced sign of attraction. If a girl becomes overwhelmingly attracted to you, she will start looking for excuses to touch your arm or leg or even your face if she’s really turned on.

She Stares at Your Junk: This is another obvious sign of attraction. You might be surprised at the number of girls who can’t help but stare at your junk. They sometimes even begin with eye contact and their eyes slowly move down to your junk.

Her Friends Treat You Like a Star: If a girl is attracted to you, she will talk about you a lot with her friends. This will cause them to treat you like they know you and they have heard a lot about you from her.

Well, now that you’ve been exposed to a number of things to be on the lookout for, you can easily keep your eyes and ears open for things. In the meantime, you can connect with local horny women using an online dating website or two.

Here’s How To Tell If A Girl Is Cheating On You…

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One of the most hurtful and humiliating things a guy or girl can endure in a relationship is finding out that their significant other is cheating on them. I have got to be honest, I love having affairs with women I meet online. Yes, I get it, this is a touchy subject because there is a fine line between being jealous and trying to find out if you’re being cheated on. The signs are a bit different with women than they are with men, so I am going to address some different ways to tell if a girl is being unfaithful. Don’t make assumptions. For the sake of trust; it’s best not to let it enter your mind unless one of these signs becomes obvious and hard to ignore.

Major Signs She Is Cheating On You

Different Ways You Can Tell If A Girl Is Cheating On You

She starts dressing sexier. If she starts wearing more revealing outfits without explanation, she may be dressing to impress someone else. There’s nothing wrong with a girl wanting to be a little sexier, but if it comes out of nowhere and she is defensive when you bring it up, she’s probably up to no good.

She loses interest in advancing the relationship. This one is tricky because she may just have problems with you and may not be cheating at all. If you are confident in the way you treat her and you sense that she is losing interest, ask her about it and watch to see if she becomes defensive or nervous. You’ve gotta keep her interested and the best way to do that is to dress nice and play the part.

Her interest in sex drops dramatically. This one is obvious, but it could also mean that she is not happy with you. If she loses interest in having sex without explanation, you deserve to know why. If it’s you, make her tell you. If she’s cheating, she will likely reveal it in her reaction.

She suddenly becomes a lot busier than usual. If you notice that she suddenly doesn’t have as much time for you, she might be making time for someone else. If she does become busier than usual, she should tell you what’s going on in her life that made her busier without you having to ask her.

She starts insisting on her own space more. Every person in every relationship needs some space from time to time, but you should be wary if she wants it suddenly without giving a reason. This is a sign of a problem either way, but she could be making space for another man in her life.

She gets defensive when you ask questions. If she starts getting overly defensive over the questions related to you and your relationship, she might have something to hide. As long as you approach your concerns without sounding like you’re accusing her of something, she should respect you enough to answer.

Nothing you do is right. If a girl is getting affection from another man, she might start to get annoyed by everything you do and be overly critical. Cheating is exciting. Being intimate with another guy behind your back is a new experience and can make you seem less exciting or desirable in comparison.

I’ll be honest, there are actually plenty of other ways that you can tell if a girl is cheating on your or not. This is just a rundown of those which I remembered off the top of my head. The good news is that there are plenty of horny girls for you to meet online these days.

Gym Openers To Help You Connect With Women

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Working out at the gym is one of my best-kept secrets. In fact, there’s so much that this does for me and my love life. While I typically don’t meet someone that wants a long term relationship, I do meet people that simply like to chat. Yes, the chatting often leads to a date and even further, sometimes sex. If you’re not going to the gym then you are doing your body and mind an injustice. Anyway, here are some of what I refer to as “gym openers” that I use to break the ice with girls I meet at the gym.

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Gym Openers And Ice Breakers That Work

Here are some of the most basic gym openers that you can give a shot if you’re at the gym and spot a hottie. I’m not saying they all work great, but they do typically work quite well. Try each of these out with different girls that you encounter during your workouts. Don’t use them all in one day either.

“Do you take any pre workouts?” Ask them something about a pre-workout drink. Some girls use them and others don’t. The ones that do use them love talking about them.

“What’s the best exercise for toning [insert body part]?” Ask the girls what they think is the best body part and I think they will love hearing that question from you. Reason being, it’s almost as if you’re putting them at a higher status and they love feeling “more adequate” than the typical man.

“Can you show me how this works?” Do not be afraid to ask one of the girls if they can show you how a machine works. If you’ve seen them on it just ask them for help. That’s a great way to connect with some girl and she her sweat it out too.

All in all, I’ve had a ton of success meeting girls at the gym that like to have sex randomly with men. I connect with them online once I’m at the gym and things just work out from there on out! Don’t be afraid to talk to girls at the gym, just don’t tell them they are super hot or anything of that nature. Taking that approach isn’t going to get you anywhere at all!

How To Talk To Ladies Online (That You Want To Bang)

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I have had so much success with online dating, and it all starts with chatting with her first and building up to that first date. It doesn’t need to be an intimidating task, just be yourself and have fun with her. Follow these simple tips and you’ll be past the “online” part of dating and taking her out on a real date and seeing where things go. Keep in mind that I’ve successfully hooked up with over 50+ ladies using this website and it’s a combination of my perseverance as well as my charm that makes it easy to meet girls for sex. Without wasting any precious time, let me get right into things here…

How To Talk To Ladies Online

Here’s How To Talk To Ladies On The Web That You Want To Smash

Make no mistake about it, I’ve smashed more girls than Paul D and The Situation combined. I get mine and I’m sure you’ll appreciate the fact that I’m sharing my knowledge. Take a peek below for the real deal Holyfield when it comes to chatting it up with the ladies online.

The first thing to remember is that it is OK to push the envelope. If you are boring and dull, she won’t remember you. She is probably talking to many guys – men far outnumber women online, so they can choose to be selective and still get a lot of messages – so you need to make yourself memorable. Keep it light-hearted, but it’s OK to be playful and tease her a bit. Keep it all in good taste, of course. If you are saying something that may be taken the wrong way, go ahead and use an emoticon at the end and let her know that you’re just joking around.

If you build up the playful, witty, joking side of you, you will find out if she has the same kind of personality and enjoys the flirtatious back and forth banter. Also, by being light-hearted with everything, if you do perhaps mistakenly say something that is a little out of bounds for her, she’ll be more likely to just tell you to ease up as opposed to just ending the conversation entirely.

Another thing to remember is to not spend too much time talking about yourself, giving her your whole life story. She doesn’t care to hear about these things right now, other than the basic details, and will just confuse them with other guys she is talking to. Save that kind of stuff for when you meet in person when you know she really does have an interest in getting to know you. Under no circumstances are you allowed to tell her how big your package is or how many girls you’ve smashed over the course of many years. That’s the stupidest idea I’ve ever heard in my entire life.

Lastly, don’t hesitate to ask her out on a date. I don’t mean within the first hour or first day talking to her, but if after a few days of continuous back and forth you haven’t asked her out, she’s going to wonder if you have the balls to ever do it. Develop a good rapport with her, see that she’s interested in the conversation, and ask if she’d like to take it to the next level and meet in person. Assuming she says yes to meeting in person, I want you to take things to the next level and get ready for some hookup fun. By that, I mean that you’ve gotta be ready to have sex on your date. After all, these ladies want dick pretty badly, they just aren’t going to come out and say it.